SLEEP 0-3 MONTHS
How long should my baby be sleeping? (0–3 Months)
In the first three months, newborn sleep is very unpredictable and that’s completely normal. Babies this age sleep in short bursts, day and night. The American Academy of Pediatrics explains that newborns sleep a lot, but rarely all at once.
Total sleep in 24 hours:
Most newborns sleep about 14–17 hours a day, sometimes more.
But they wake often to eat, be comforted, and connect with you.
Typical wake windows:
Newborns can only stay awake for 45–90 minutes at a time before getting tired again.
Signs they’re ready to sleep:
- Staring off
- Red eyebrows
- Yawning
- Rubbing eyes or face
- Fussing that builds quickly
Responding early helps make naps easier.
Day and night sleep is mixed at this age:
It’s normal if your baby:
- Takes many small naps
- Sleeps for 2–4 hours at a time
- Wakes frequently to feed
- Doesn’t have a “schedule” yet
Their internal clock is still developing. The CDC reminds parents that sleep becomes more predictable closer to 3–4 months.
Feeding affects sleep:
Newborns need to eat frequently:
- Breastfed babies often every 2–3 hours
- Formula-fed babies every 3–4 hours
Because of this, night waking is healthy and expected.
The AAP recommends waking newborns to feed if they sleep longer than 3–4 hours, until weight gain is on track.
Safe sleep reminder
At every sleep:
- Place baby on their back
- On a flat, firm sleep surface
- No blankets, toys, or pillows
Newborn sleep is messy, short, and scattered and that’s okay.
If your baby sleeps a total of 14–17 hours in a day, wakes to eat, and has periods of alertness, they are likely on track.
Citations:
American Academy of Pediatrics. (2023). Baby sleep basics.
American Academy of Pediatrics. (2023). Back to sleep, tummy to play.
American Academy of Pediatrics. (2023). Feeding and nutrition for your baby
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2024). Infant sleep and routines
National Sleep Foundation. (2023). Sleep duration recommendations.
How do I put my baby to sleep? (0–3 Months)
Newborn sleep is unpredictable, and babies this age often need a lot of help settling.
The goal is to keep sleep safe, reduce overstimulation, and help your baby feel calm and supported.
The American Academy of Pediatrics reminds parents that newborns wake often, and that’s completely normal.
Watch for early sleepy cues:
Putting babies down before they become overtired makes sleep much easier.
Early cues include:
- Staring or looking away
- Red eyebrows
- Yawning
- Rubbing eyes or face
- Fussing that builds slowly
- Slower movements
Most newborns can only stay awake 45–90 minutes at a time.
Create a simple, calming routine:
This doesn’t have to be fancy. Think:
- Dim the lights
- Lower the noise
- Gentle rocking or holding
- Soft singing or shushing
- Swaddle (if your baby isn’t rolling yet)
These steps help babies shift from “alert” to “ready for sleep.”
Swaddle for comfort:
Swaddling can help newborns feel secure and reduce the startle reflex.
Follow safe guidance from the AAP.
Important:
- Stop swaddling when baby shows signs of rolling.
- Always put baby on their back for sleep.
A wearable swaddle or sleep sack is a safer choice than loose blankets.
Use white noise:
Soft white noise can help babies settle by mimicking the womb.
The AAP says white noise can be helpful when used safely and at a low volume.
Try:
- A sound machine
- A fan
- Gentle “shhh” sounds
Feed if they’re hungry:
Newborns wake often to eat. If your baby shows hunger cues (rooting, sucking motions, bringing hands to mouth), feed before sleep.
Feeding-to-sleep is very normal at this age.
You are not creating “bad habits.”
Put baby down safely:
When baby is calm or asleep, place them:
- On their back
- On a firm, flat surface
- In a crib, bassinet, or play yard
No blankets, pillows, stuffed animals, or positioners.
Expect night waking:
0–3 month-olds wake every 2–4 hours for feeding, comfort, and connection.
This is normal, healthy, and temporary.
If your baby wakes:
- Offer comfort
- Feed if needed
- Keep lights low and interactions gentle
You can’t spoil a newborn:
Holding, rocking, feeding, and soothing your baby builds trust. Babies this age rely on caregivers to regulate their bodies and emotions.
Putting a newborn to sleep isn’t about schedules it’s about comfort, safety, and responding to their cues.
If your baby is fed, warm, safe, and supported, you’re doing exactly what they need.
Citations:
American Academy of Pediatrics. (2023). Back to sleep, tummy to play.
American Academy of Pediatrics. (2023). Swaddling: Is it safe?
American Academy of Pediatrics. (2023). White noise machines and infants.
American Academy of Pediatrics. (2023). Baby sleep basics.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2024). Infant sleep and routines.
How do I swaddle a baby?
Swaddling can help newborns feel snug and calm as long as it’s done safely.
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) says swaddling is okay for young babies who are not yet rolling, and only when babies sleep on their backs every time.
Here’s a simple, safe way to do it:
Step-by-step: How to swaddle a baby
1. Lay out the blanket
Spread a thin, square blanket on a flat surface.
Turn it into a diamond shape, with a corner at the top.
Fold the top corner down about 6 inches to make a straight edge.
2. Place baby on the blanket
Lay your baby on their back with:
- Shoulders just below the fold
- Head above the blanket edge
3. Bring the first side across
Take the left corner of the blanket and bring it snugly across baby’s chest.
Tuck it under their back on the opposite side.
Make sure baby’s hips and legs can move—the blanket should be snug at the arms but loose around the hips.
4. Fold the bottom up
Bring the bottom corner of the blanket up over the feet, leaving enough space for the legs to bend and move.
5. Bring the other side across
Take the right corner of the blanket and wrap it over the baby’s chest.
Tuck the extra fabric gently under their back.
Baby’s arms can be inside the swaddle (most calming for newborns).
What a safe swaddle should look like
- Snug around arms and chest
- Loose around hips and legs
- Legs should move freely
- No blanket near baby’s face
- Baby should always be placed on their back for sleep
This helps keep baby comfortable and protects their developing hips.
Stop swaddling when:
- Your baby shows any signs of rolling
- Baby breaks free of the swaddle often
- Baby is 8 weeks or older (rolling can start early!)
Once rolling begins, switch to a sleep sack (wearable blanket).
Swaddling is meant to feel like a gentle “hug.” Snug at the arms, loose at the hips, never near the face. And remember: back to sleep every time.